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Dating

Questions to ask a girl to get to know her better

Sure, you could just scroll through their Twitter or check out their IG, but if you really want to get to know someone, it’s worth having a bit of chat that goes beyond the feed. The next time you’re having a video call, float these ‘getting to know you’ questions. Dating by numbers out there – it’s a retro vibe.

VINTAGE QUESTIONS TO ASK TO GET TO KNOW A GIRL OR GUY

 

Hopefully, we already know a few things about them, like their name, age, and where they’re from. To get a better idea about what they’re thinking and to show them you’re interested / lowkey sus out if she’s GF material, here’s what to ask a girl to get to know her. Slip these easy one-liners into the convo if the chat is going a little slowly, or use them to kick things off: 

 

  1. What’s your favorite thing to do at the weekend? 
  2. What career do you want when you’re older? 
  3. What’s most important to you: money, power, or fame? 
  4. Are you more introverted or extroverted? 
  5. What’s your favorite movie/band/book? 
  6. If you had to choose one meal to eat right now, what would you pick? 
  7. What’s your biggest phobia? 
  8. At a party, are you more likely to be on the dancefloor, at the bar, or somewhere else? 
  9. Where’s your dream vacation destination? 

Dating questions to get to know someone should be low-key and natural. It’s not fun if it starts to feel like an interview. Good chat is a two-way thing. Hopefully, she’ll start firing them back at you. Your biggest phobia? Not seeing her again. And running out of deodorant. Obviously. 

Dating questions to get to know someone should be low-key and natural. Good chat is a two-way thing.

QUESTIONS TO ASK A GIRL TO GET TO KNOW HER BETTER

 

So, we’ve been through the first set of getting to know you questions for dating, and things aren’t going too badly. But a little more is needed before her name appears in the Insta bio with a padlock next to it. Get your snorkel and swim shorts, we’re about to dive a little deeper with these questions:

 

  1. Who do you get on most with in your family?
  2. How do you think your friends would describe you?
  3. What does your dream future look like?
  4. Would you want to travel in the future?
  5. What’s your favorite childhood memory?
  6. Where do you feel most at home?

Best to avoid the quick-fire approach with these. Tread carefully and let the dust settle before plunging into the deeper side of things. The great thing about this is that you’ll already have a feel for chemistry, judging from their first lot of answers. 

 

If you’re heading out on a date or video calling a BFF to see if they could become a GF, there’s no harm in a little prep with these questions to ask a woman to get to know her. Trust. You’ll get to learn a lot more than the socials alone could tell you.